My FEELING

No one should be trusted blindly. Never trust someone in such a way that you have to completely give up your own judgment, self-respect, or sense of understanding.
Trust is undoubtedly a beautiful feeling. It binds hearts and strengthens relationships. But when trust becomes “blind,” that same trust can sometimes turn into the cause of deep pain.
With time, people change. The one who stands beside you today may not be there tomorrow. Change is a natural law of nature. Sometimes people change without any clear reason, sometimes out of self-interest, sometimes due to circumstances, sometimes because of inner emotions or new ways of thinking, and sometimes simply for their own convenience—reasons that cannot always be clearly explained.
We should trust, but not at the cost of our self-respect. Even if the heart is soft, decisions must sometimes be firm. Trust is one of the most valuable assets in human relationships. It takes a long time to build this asset. Honesty, keeping promises, sincerity, and righteous behavior strengthen the foundation of trust. Yet it is very fragile. One wrong decision, one lie, or one betrayal can break everything in a moment. Even if forgiveness is possible, restoring broken trust to what it once was is not easy. It is painful.

Dr. Priti Rekha Bora
25/02/26